Dave And Marla Thomas On Mental Illness, Fame And "Loving Beyond Reason"
ALTON - Dave and Marla Thomas may have Grammys hanging on their wall, but they’re normal people who, like all of us, must cope with the extraordinary, devastating and mundane parts of love. In their family, that includes navigating their relationship with adult children with severe mental illness. And because Dave is a part of the famous a capella gospel group Take 6, they’ve done all of this while in the spotlight. Now, the couple is working to make that fight easier for other families. “Mental illness kicked the door to my house open and snatched out what was most valuable: two of my three children,” Marla said. “The decision platform that has to deal with the things that are most sensitive in our family is one that we landed on ... I didn’t choose this. I’m responding to it. But I’m responding to it responsibly and in truth and transparency.” Dave and Marla met in the second grade and became high school sweethearts.